Resturant Outing

 To celerbrate Hannahs birthday we went to a shabu shabu resturant.  Shabu-shabu is a way of cooking meat in broth at the table.  There are different sauces to dip the meat in.  Besides meat, there was a lovely all-you-can-eat salad bar, vegetables to cook in the broth, rice, curry and dessert bar!  Since the pandemic started, we haven't been out as a family, so it was nice to eat, talk and laugh!  One thing that I liked was the robot waiter that bought the meats to the table!  I got very excited by that, much to Hannah's embarrassment.

Our robot waiter

David, Mikey and Christopher

Hannah and myself

The cake was a surprise that David ordered when he made the reservation!

On Hannah's birthday we had a nice dinner as well. Hannah ordered pizza, David bought cake and I made a trifle.  But because of everyone's schedules we couldn't eat together.

Cakes and trifles

I know I shouldn't have sugar but I made an exception for Hannah's birthday.  One thing I found was the next day I felt very sluggish, so I can see that sugar really doesn't suit me at all!!!

Hannah

 Today is Hannah's birthday.  21 years old.

With Hannah, I'm always amazed that she has grown up.  She was born extremely premature, I was just 26 weeks pregnant.  She weighed 903 grams.  Very tiny, especially since the boys were all over 3000 grams! The doctors gave her just a 30% chance of surviving and the possibility that she could have brain damage or be blind.   But here we are 21 years later.  She not only survived but has grown into a beautiful young woman.  She has such a caring nature,  always giving to others, and thinking of others before herself.  The career path that she has chosen reflects that she wants to teach and is trying to get a license for elementary school teaching and special needs education.  Instead of expecting me to support her financially, she has taken responsibility herself.  She has found different scholarships for her university and is working two part-time jobs for things she wants to buy!

Some photos of Hannah!

A few days old, the pipe is to help her breathe.

A machine that kept her alive

First time to hold her

Feeding, straight into her stomach

Back home, 4 months in hospital

with Dad

All my kids

When Hannah was a year old we visited England.  It gave my Mom a chance to be with her.

with Grandma

and Granddad

Starting to toddle

playing Cinderella

Asking Santa for lots of presents

Making dinner, maybe 12 years old

elementary school

Graduation from elementary school

junior high school

on the way to England

tickets for Phantom of the Opera

graduation junior high school

high school

now

starting elementary school

Sorry the photos aren't in order!

Plans vs Reality

 I had great plans for this week.  Actually, I have great plans for every week.  But the reality is that nothing gets done.

This week I really wanted to tackle some of the yard.  It's a disaster again!

But Monday I was tired and spent time cleaning the kitchen.  Tuesday and Wednesday it rained, which means the weeds have grown even taller.  Thursday was busy with classes.  Friday I had to go and buy a mat to put on my mattress.  Then today, Saturday, I have classes and it is raining again.  There is always tomorrow but I might go to the other house and get more done there!

My garden...the disaster

One problem I have is planning things at night.  Instead of sleeping, I lie there thinking about all the things I have to do and all the things I want to do.  The next morning I'm so tired that only half of what I was thinking about gets done.  

Another problem I have is sorting out all the stuff that I've dumped at the other house.  The past few weeks I've been sorting out all of my mother-in-law's stuff.  That was easy as I have no emotional attachment to the things.  I felt that it was all waste of money but that was all.  Now I have to start throwing out things that I've bought, things that have memories attached to them and it's going to be hard.  But it needs to be done.  A couple of years ago when I started this process I had a hard time throwing out all the baby clothes that I had.  So I chose one item from each child to keep.  These were the clothes that had a lot of good memories attached to them.  Also, I've kept all the cardigans that my mom made.  Doing that made it easier to let go.  For me, that is the best thing to do.  Does anybody else have any ideas?

Another Cat Post

 This is Fred.

He is really cute but recently he has become a pain in the neck.

Because he fights with the other cats at night he is upstairs, usually in David's room.  The other cats are locked in the living/dining/kitchen area.  The problem is that Fred won't sleep unless somebody is with him.  We tried putting one of the cats that he doesn't fight with but he still cries and scratches on my door.  On the nights that David is home, it's okay.  David keeps the same schedule as when he is working, so he is awake at night and can take care of Fred.  The other nights either Hannah or I have to stay with Fred.  David has a loft bed so I can't sleep on it, it wouldn't take my weight!  So I sit on the floor reading, sometimes I can doze a bit but it's not comfortable.  Hannah usually sleeps on the floor.  I try to take care the nights that Hannah has university as it's hard on her.  I am really hoping this is just something he is going through and it will stop.  Reminds me of when the kids were babies!  At least with babies there is an end to sleepless nights!

The other cats are alright.  There is a lot of work going on in the neighbors, two new houses are being built. At first the cats were scared of the noise but now they are in the window watching, it looks like they are supervising the build.

Keeping an eye on things!

I don't understand!

 Back at the dentist this week.  More drilling.  I don't know what he is drilling as there is very little tooth left! 

As he was drilling the tooth, the gum started to hurt.  Not very painful but enough to make me gasp.  He asked if it was painful.  I answered a little,  I could have endured it but he gave me a local anesthetic. So that got me thinking.  A few weeks back when he was drilling it was really painful.  I told the dentist and all he said was okay.  This is what I don't understand, little pain gets a local, extreme pain nothing!  I even asked Christopher if I had the right Japanese, which I did.  And I have to go again.

Yesterday was the first hot day!  Up to 29C, which is unusual for April!  Of course, I got sick!  Every year it's the same.  The first hot day I get a fever and feel nauseous.  I was so bad yesterday that Hannah had to do my classes.   I drank a lot of water and rested with the fan on.  Today I feel a lot better.  At the moment it's really windy, there's a gale advisory for this area!

Lovely flowers at the other house

The plants seem to be blooming earlier than usual.  The azaleas are almost finished.  They use to bloom in May.  They are lovely flowers but very short-lived!