The House Again

 Last Friday David, Christopher and I went to the house to clear out more stuff.  

Now is the hard part.  The past few months I've thrown out most of the stuff my mother-in-law had saved. That was easy as I had no feelings for the things that she had collected.  The only emotion I had was what a waste of money!  Now I have to sort and throw out the things I've been hanging onto.  Friday it was the massive collection of books.   Hundreds of books, maybe thousands.  We set up bookshelves for the ones I want to keep.  That has made the idea that we are really moving there more real.  Seeing books out of the boxes and onto bookshelves means we are moving.  I'm still trying to find a way to get enough money to buy a place where we are.  I thought of selling the house and land but it wouldn't be enough to buy something here.  So I have to accept, even though it breaks my heart!

Looking through the books bought back so many memories.  Books I bought for the kids to read and books I read to them.  Some of those I kept.  The next big problem is the huge pile of videos, DVDs and CDs.  I have no idea where these can be thrown away.  Also the toys.  I must have spent a fortune on my kids!!

Outside storage, a lot of stuff for fieldwork

Driveway to the outside storage

Stone house in the garden, I never noticed it before

When I returned from the house I found the kitchen sink was blocked again.  Another call to the plumber but we had to wait until today before he could come.  3 days without a kitchen sink, is kind of crazy! We managed but I'm glad to have it fixed.

And today Hannah went to the city by herself to watch a musical.  It's based on a Japanese anime, so I have no idea what the story is.  She looked all grown up this morning when she left.  

Going to the theater

The Kitchen Sink

 Last week both Christopher and Hannah got sick.  Christopher started on Thursday, with a sore throat, sinus headache, and stuffy, runny nose.  I thought it might be allergies because I was down with allergies on Tuesday.  But Thursday night Hannah started to complain of a sore throat.  Looks more like a cold.  Problem with Hannah is that she always gets very high fevers.  Friday afternoon her fever was up to 39C.  She slept most of the day.  By dinner time she felt better but hungry.  Dinner in our house is usually self-service.  We have our main meal at lunch, then leftovers or whatever can be found in the kitchen for dinner.  Our evening schedules are crazy,  David doesn't eat, he's still sleeping, but will have breakfast at about 10:30.  Mikey eats at about 9pm.  Christopher at 9:30 if he has work, and earlier if no work.  Hannah either after 10pm when she has work at the cram school but earlier if working at the drug store.  

Last Friday was a holiday so I decided to make something for Christopher and Hannah, maybe some nice soup.  Started washing the dishes and noticed that the water wasn't draining.  The kitchen sink here is rather strange.  There are two sinks, one very large, the other too small to be useful.  The second sink I use to drain the wet dishes.  The two sinks are connected underneath.  I noticed that the dirty water from the large sink was backing up to the small sink.  I decided to unscrew the waste pipe to drain out the sinks and see if I could find what was blocking the sink.  I managed to unscrew the pipe from the big sink but the weight of the water pulled the pipe away from the small sink, ripping the plastic, making both sinks unusable.  Time to call the plumber.  We had phone numbers for emergency plumbers.  Hannah had to call.  But she wasn't sure how to explain what was wrong in Japanese.  She managed somehow.  The plumber came at 7:30 and got the sink fixed in about 10 minutes, cost was 7000 yen, about 40 pounds.   I'm glad that it's fixed and that it didn't cost too much!

David keeps taking my phone to take selfies, so I'm putting them here.

 

Resturant Outing

 To celerbrate Hannahs birthday we went to a shabu shabu resturant.  Shabu-shabu is a way of cooking meat in broth at the table.  There are different sauces to dip the meat in.  Besides meat, there was a lovely all-you-can-eat salad bar, vegetables to cook in the broth, rice, curry and dessert bar!  Since the pandemic started, we haven't been out as a family, so it was nice to eat, talk and laugh!  One thing that I liked was the robot waiter that bought the meats to the table!  I got very excited by that, much to Hannah's embarrassment.

Our robot waiter

David, Mikey and Christopher

Hannah and myself

The cake was a surprise that David ordered when he made the reservation!

On Hannah's birthday we had a nice dinner as well. Hannah ordered pizza, David bought cake and I made a trifle.  But because of everyone's schedules we couldn't eat together.

Cakes and trifles

I know I shouldn't have sugar but I made an exception for Hannah's birthday.  One thing I found was the next day I felt very sluggish, so I can see that sugar really doesn't suit me at all!!!

Hannah

 Today is Hannah's birthday.  21 years old.

With Hannah, I'm always amazed that she has grown up.  She was born extremely premature, I was just 26 weeks pregnant.  She weighed 903 grams.  Very tiny, especially since the boys were all over 3000 grams! The doctors gave her just a 30% chance of surviving and the possibility that she could have brain damage or be blind.   But here we are 21 years later.  She not only survived but has grown into a beautiful young woman.  She has such a caring nature,  always giving to others, and thinking of others before herself.  The career path that she has chosen reflects that she wants to teach and is trying to get a license for elementary school teaching and special needs education.  Instead of expecting me to support her financially, she has taken responsibility herself.  She has found different scholarships for her university and is working two part-time jobs for things she wants to buy!

Some photos of Hannah!

A few days old, the pipe is to help her breathe.

A machine that kept her alive

First time to hold her

Feeding, straight into her stomach

Back home, 4 months in hospital

with Dad

All my kids

When Hannah was a year old we visited England.  It gave my Mom a chance to be with her.

with Grandma

and Granddad

Starting to toddle

playing Cinderella

Asking Santa for lots of presents

Making dinner, maybe 12 years old

elementary school

Graduation from elementary school

junior high school

on the way to England

tickets for Phantom of the Opera

graduation junior high school

high school

now

starting elementary school

Sorry the photos aren't in order!

Plans vs Reality

 I had great plans for this week.  Actually, I have great plans for every week.  But the reality is that nothing gets done.

This week I really wanted to tackle some of the yard.  It's a disaster again!

But Monday I was tired and spent time cleaning the kitchen.  Tuesday and Wednesday it rained, which means the weeds have grown even taller.  Thursday was busy with classes.  Friday I had to go and buy a mat to put on my mattress.  Then today, Saturday, I have classes and it is raining again.  There is always tomorrow but I might go to the other house and get more done there!

My garden...the disaster

One problem I have is planning things at night.  Instead of sleeping, I lie there thinking about all the things I have to do and all the things I want to do.  The next morning I'm so tired that only half of what I was thinking about gets done.  

Another problem I have is sorting out all the stuff that I've dumped at the other house.  The past few weeks I've been sorting out all of my mother-in-law's stuff.  That was easy as I have no emotional attachment to the things.  I felt that it was all waste of money but that was all.  Now I have to start throwing out things that I've bought, things that have memories attached to them and it's going to be hard.  But it needs to be done.  A couple of years ago when I started this process I had a hard time throwing out all the baby clothes that I had.  So I chose one item from each child to keep.  These were the clothes that had a lot of good memories attached to them.  Also, I've kept all the cardigans that my mom made.  Doing that made it easier to let go.  For me, that is the best thing to do.  Does anybody else have any ideas?