I got through Christmas. I am not sure how but managed
The kids liked their presents. I cooked the turkey and did the trimmings. A good friend came and helped make the table seem less empty.
It wasn't the usual Christmas we have. There is usually some disaster that ends up having everybody crying with laughter. Hubby always said that the Japanese don't do Christmas but he loved it. He spent ages looking for the perfect gifts for the kids and was willing to go out of his way to do things for them. This year we bought an electronic darts set for David. The boys took it upstairs and set it up. I could hear them laughing. I realised that this game was probably as much for hubby as for the kids, that's the kind of thing he would of loved.
I am still in shock and have spent far too much time the past couple of weeks sorting out all the official stuff, then I had flu, still down with that but need to tidy up and take down the Christmas tree.
I will write again.
Saturday, December 29, 2012
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Not the post I want to write
But I have too.
At 1am December 18th, Japan time, my beloved husband passed away.
He had a heart attack, according to the doctor he didn't suffer and went peacefuly.
Mikey came home from his part time job and found him sitting at the kotasu table. Mikey thought that
he was asleep until he touched him and found him already cold. We called the ambulance but I could see that it was too late.
Friends have rallied round and I have to get through the funeral and the next couple of days, after that I don't know. I am taking things one hour at a time.
I am not sure when I will write again.
At 1am December 18th, Japan time, my beloved husband passed away.
He had a heart attack, according to the doctor he didn't suffer and went peacefuly.
Mikey came home from his part time job and found him sitting at the kotasu table. Mikey thought that
he was asleep until he touched him and found him already cold. We called the ambulance but I could see that it was too late.
Friends have rallied round and I have to get through the funeral and the next couple of days, after that I don't know. I am taking things one hour at a time.
I am not sure when I will write again.
Saturday, December 15, 2012
Very long time
I can't believe that so much time has passed since I wrote. I have a load of excuses, basically very busy, very cold and kind of sick, just allergies but I get a lot of headaches because of it!
So what has been happening.
Sometime in November a group of kids from the local junior high school came to interview me. They were doing a study about businesses in the city. As a small business I was chosen. It was a rather fun time, I thought an English teacher would come but they came by themselves. David helped out, I could understand their questions but couldn't answer!! Guess I should study Japanese!!
The end of November we went to MIL's to pick up the Christmas tree and decorations, I go a bit crazy for Christmas. I love having the tree up and lights outside the house. At MIL's house there is a large storage area. All the stuff we don't use is put there. But that means that nothing is ever thrown out . I found a box of clothes that I had when I lived in America, 30 years ago. Why am I keeping this stuff? So what should of been an one hour job became a 4 hour job. We burnt a lot of stuff, I think every time we go we will burn stuff. I really want to be able to get our stuff to a manageable amount!
One of my students gave us some tickets to the museum near here, so on December 1st Hisao took the kids to the museum. I think they had a good time!
My students have been working very hard the past couple of months. The girls that come with Hannah have been learning past tense. I think they have it now, I hope so.
I am sure that there is more, but I just can't think at the moment.
I will update more often, I promise.
So what has been happening.
Sometime in November a group of kids from the local junior high school came to interview me. They were doing a study about businesses in the city. As a small business I was chosen. It was a rather fun time, I thought an English teacher would come but they came by themselves. David helped out, I could understand their questions but couldn't answer!! Guess I should study Japanese!!
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1st year junior high kids, bit shy |
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Taking pictures of my classroom |
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Camera shy, he was hiding from his friends camera but I got him!!!! |
The end of November we went to MIL's to pick up the Christmas tree and decorations, I go a bit crazy for Christmas. I love having the tree up and lights outside the house. At MIL's house there is a large storage area. All the stuff we don't use is put there. But that means that nothing is ever thrown out . I found a box of clothes that I had when I lived in America, 30 years ago. Why am I keeping this stuff? So what should of been an one hour job became a 4 hour job. We burnt a lot of stuff, I think every time we go we will burn stuff. I really want to be able to get our stuff to a manageable amount!
One of my students gave us some tickets to the museum near here, so on December 1st Hisao took the kids to the museum. I think they had a good time!
My students have been working very hard the past couple of months. The girls that come with Hannah have been learning past tense. I think they have it now, I hope so.
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Above the girls notebooks, last picture is of the girls working hard!! |
I will update more often, I promise.
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
What a Day
My insomnia got the better of me last night. I went to bed about 10:30 but woke up at 2am and couldn't fall asleep again. So I got up at 4:30, put some meat in the slow cooker for lunch and made some banana coffee muffins. Hubby started to wash the dishes a little while later. While he was washing the dishes water started to pour from under the sink, a pipe had broken. He turned the water off at the main and we cleaned up as best as we could. This is a rental house, so after dropping the kids off at school, hubby went to the real estate agents and asked for a plumber to come. Somebody came and had a look at the situation but couldn't do anything because of the contract . The guy who has the contract came at 9am, looked and left. We are now 4 hours without water, we could get some cold water but no hot water! The cold water was from outside the house, fill up pots and pans and bring in. By 12:30 the plumber still hadn't come back, so another call to the real estate agent. The plumber returned at 1:30 and has just finished fixing the pipe......maybe!
At times like this I wonder how people cope in areas that are hit by disasters, how do you deal with NO water,electricity or gas? Even one day with no water has driven me crazy, a few days I would be climbing the walls!
At times like this I wonder how people cope in areas that are hit by disasters, how do you deal with NO water,electricity or gas? Even one day with no water has driven me crazy, a few days I would be climbing the walls!
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Mom's birthday and Ikea shopping
Last Sunday (October 28th) would of been Mom's 73rd birthday. It's hard to imagine her that old! I had already planned the dinner for that day, shepherds pie, per Christopher's request and apple pie. It was while I was making the pastry for the apple pie that I realised the date! Baking with Mom is one of my earliest and fondest memories! Sundays were always roast days and because the oven was on for hours my Mom would bake pie and sponge cakes. I can remember as young as four or five "helping" Mom in the kitchen, I would get to beat the batter and be given the scraps of pastry to roll out! One very clear memory I have is my Mom balancing the pie plate on one hand and cutting the scraps off. This looked like a very difficult operation, involving the ability to balance and turn the plate all the time trimming away the excess pastry. I remember thinking that once I could do that I would be grown up.....guess I'm grown up now!!!
Nice photo of Mom holding Hannah! That is one thing that makes me really sad, Hannah never had chance to get to know my Mom.
On to something a bit more cheerful.......shopping!! Hubby took me to Ikea on Tuesday. 2 hours drive but I really enjoyed looking around and I even managed to control my spending. I got a good size teapot and a nice roasting tray that fits my oven. I could of spent a lot more but we were going to Costco as well and I always spend a lot there! I haven't been to Costco for about a year but I really wanted to get some good meat. I've started using my slow cooker recently and I'm amazed at how well the food turns out. So I got some cubed stewing steak and mince meat, so am looking forward to some nice meatloaf and beef stew.
On to something a bit more cheerful.......shopping!! Hubby took me to Ikea on Tuesday. 2 hours drive but I really enjoyed looking around and I even managed to control my spending. I got a good size teapot and a nice roasting tray that fits my oven. I could of spent a lot more but we were going to Costco as well and I always spend a lot there! I haven't been to Costco for about a year but I really wanted to get some good meat. I've started using my slow cooker recently and I'm amazed at how well the food turns out. So I got some cubed stewing steak and mince meat, so am looking forward to some nice meatloaf and beef stew.
Saturday, October 27, 2012
Crazy Busy Week
It's been one of those weeks, just so busy. Actually I often wonder what to write about because my life gets to be rather routine, nothing really happens, so nothing to write about! Then things get crazy busy like this past week and I have no time or energy to write!
The week started out with a rather unusual problem. The light switch for the toilet broke. I thought the light had gone, so hubby changed it. But the light wouldn't stay on. It would go on for a few seconds, then turn off. The switch is on the outside of the toilet, so one way was for somebody to hold the switch down while somebody else used the toilet!!!! Not the best idea in a house full of practical jokers! Hubby came up with an interesting idea until we got the switch fixed, he out a reading lamp inside.
Not the best solution but better than nothing. Hubby managed to fix the switch himself.
The week was dominated by Halloween parties and the hundreds of cookies I made. Talk about exhausted, I was up at about 5am every morning to make cookies and cakes. Fun but exhausting!
Mikey did most of the teaching last week and judging from the screams and giggles the kids had a lot of fun. He also did some magic for the kids, that was a great hit!
Also this week David went to Tokyo for 3 days school trip. He was not impressed, he said that it was expensive and crowded. He took some photos, so I hope I can share some.
This coming week is also busy, but more relaxed. I have 3 days holiday and I hope to go to Ikea. I have been wanting to go since it opened but never had chance! Also I do something for our kids for Halloween. More baking and fun!
The week started out with a rather unusual problem. The light switch for the toilet broke. I thought the light had gone, so hubby changed it. But the light wouldn't stay on. It would go on for a few seconds, then turn off. The switch is on the outside of the toilet, so one way was for somebody to hold the switch down while somebody else used the toilet!!!! Not the best idea in a house full of practical jokers! Hubby came up with an interesting idea until we got the switch fixed, he out a reading lamp inside.
Not the best solution but better than nothing. Hubby managed to fix the switch himself.
The week was dominated by Halloween parties and the hundreds of cookies I made. Talk about exhausted, I was up at about 5am every morning to make cookies and cakes. Fun but exhausting!
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Hannah helping out. |
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Mikey also helped with the cookies! |
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Hannah's drawings |
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CUTE!!!! |
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Classroom dressed for Halloween |
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Mikey cuts off a kids finger then serves it up!!!! |
This coming week is also busy, but more relaxed. I have 3 days holiday and I hope to go to Ikea. I have been wanting to go since it opened but never had chance! Also I do something for our kids for Halloween. More baking and fun!
Friday, October 19, 2012
Halloween at Hannah's school
I was invited to Hannah's club to do a Halloween lesson. the club is "The International Club", which is really the English Club. Kids here get a little bit of English in the 5th and 6th grade but nothing before unless they have private lessons. The club is from the 4th grade and only meets once a month. So I was expecting no English at all from the girls (all girls this year) but I was pleasantly surprised that they could answer basic questions like "What's your name?" and "What grade are you in?" I dragged Mikey along, I had to walk to the school carrying cookies and materials. Mikey then took over and did all the teaching! Aren't I clever? He is such a good teacher and had the girls laughing and trying new words! At the end we had them line up and say "Trick or Treat" to get the cookies. Hannah was very happy that we came and the teacher asked me to go again for Christmas. That should be fun.
The rest of this week has been kind of busy, basically preparing for Halloween parties next week. I want to buy some food coloring, not the Japanese stuff that I have a hard time with but American stuff. I have seen it in a shop somewhere, but this shop is in a mall and I have no idea where. So Thursday was spent driving to different malls trying to find this shop, I'll have to go again on Sunday.
I did manage to buy some color hairspray for Mikey, gold and red. Been trying it out. Fun.
And this is what happens when I leave the camera out.
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Mikey teaching Halloween words |
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Girls having a good laugh |
I did manage to buy some color hairspray for Mikey, gold and red. Been trying it out. Fun.
And this is what happens when I leave the camera out.
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Hannah's other school |
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